tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88166366617055682432024-03-19T08:24:19.423-04:00Facts, Facets, Fancies, and Fairy TalesBecause life is filled with realities, angles, ideas, and even happily ever afters.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.comBlogger376125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-20964507205983359392013-08-02T18:12:00.000-04:002013-08-02T18:12:00.099-04:002013 Reading: May - July Edition<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxsKGbautcrbrKHiUQRetd94nGPr70btsSwZnXY3in3FCSIdvE7wmMxGR_Ar3k2O7CMleX9Zb7vr9JW4bFgx_s6vaZ0uvFyZn4vwfynJvDyoSJLGe-j4yA-pQkMjCFxdeihEWKsFtF1slm/s1600/out+of+the+easy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxsKGbautcrbrKHiUQRetd94nGPr70btsSwZnXY3in3FCSIdvE7wmMxGR_Ar3k2O7CMleX9Zb7vr9JW4bFgx_s6vaZ0uvFyZn4vwfynJvDyoSJLGe-j4yA-pQkMjCFxdeihEWKsFtF1slm/s1600/out+of+the+easy.jpg" height="200" width="133" /></a>My top recommendations from this edition of What I've Been Reading include:<br />
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Ruta Sepetys is one of my new favorite authors. Both <i>Between Shades of Gray</i> (read earlier in the year) and <i>Out of the Easy</i> are fantastic historical novels. Just read them. :)<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiiCA8zat5Xxy2cdsuYWNIVht2wQhVs5ry4lK9mNu3lu2zE2sNd3tvcp5-1r_6HjxgrSF7w17MIG8ZiEZC0p5ehZc7GCw3dW-olUCKW-uDPv70cl3ZcdOk9Os2yWHL_HbDneeZ6ZBjMPt9b/s1600/rootless.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiiCA8zat5Xxy2cdsuYWNIVht2wQhVs5ry4lK9mNu3lu2zE2sNd3tvcp5-1r_6HjxgrSF7w17MIG8ZiEZC0p5ehZc7GCw3dW-olUCKW-uDPv70cl3ZcdOk9Os2yWHL_HbDneeZ6ZBjMPt9b/s1600/rootless.jpg" height="200" width="131" /></a>I particularly enjoyed the first half of <i>Rootless</i>. That's not to say that I didn't enjoy it as a whole, but I was a little disappointed to discover that it's a series. I felt like if crafted just a little differently, it could have been a great stand alone YA novel. But still, I appreciated the dystopian world Chris Howard created. It's sometime in the future and there are no trees left (though there is a rumor about one remaining living tree somewhere), there are flesh-eating locusts, and genetically modified popcorn is what everyone eats.<br />
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<i>The River of No Return</i> is a time travel story about a young man from the 1800s who jumps forward in time 200 years to escape death. His world is, obviously, turned upside down, but he adapts; however, he is thrown a few curve balls by the Guild, time travel officials.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4mbthqyG_5fvVisw9SooZlIcW84V9RhgcrEmNzUZJBF-jvkmxEw_rGKK7CW_ZQ3HlSRMD4NncR0-cCf4YVe0pKdbsPZ-1WJ9tac38ldGm0TuaXf19VYhpmgsBzZS7OmmtN61JUwuEvO2R/s1600/river+of+no+return.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4mbthqyG_5fvVisw9SooZlIcW84V9RhgcrEmNzUZJBF-jvkmxEw_rGKK7CW_ZQ3HlSRMD4NncR0-cCf4YVe0pKdbsPZ-1WJ9tac38ldGm0TuaXf19VYhpmgsBzZS7OmmtN61JUwuEvO2R/s1600/river+of+no+return.jpg" height="200" width="132" /></a><i>The World's Strongest Librarian </i>is the memoir of librarian with an extreme case of Tourette's syndrome who uses strength training to help control it. Part of the reason I enjoyed this book is that I could totally relate to his stories about working in a public library. It is an engaging and easy read.<br />
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In previous posts I highlighted favorite quotes from <i>Galatians for You</i> and <i>Walking on Water: Reflections on Faith and Art</i>.<br />
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<b style="font-size: x-large;">May</b><br />
Non-Fiction<br />
<i>The Simple Guide to a Minimalist Life</i> by Leo Babauta<br />
<i>Zen Habits</i> by Leo Babauta<br />
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Fiction<br />
<i>The Typewriter Girl</i> by Alison Atlee<br />
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YA<br />
<i>Out of the Easy</i> by Ruta Sepetys<br />
<i>Strands of Bronze and Gold</i> by Jane Nickerson<br />
<i>Slated</i> by Teri Terry<br />
<i>Under the Never Sky</i> by Veronica Rossi<br />
<i>Rootless</i> by Chris Howard<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>June</b></span><br />
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<i>How to Be Interesting (In 10 Simple Steps)</i> by Jessica Hagy<br />
<i>The World's Strongest Librarian</i> by Josh Hanagarne<br />
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<i>The Enchanted Life of Adam Hope</i> by Rhonda Riley</div>
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YA<br />
<i>Through the Ever Night</i> by Veronica Rossi<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>July</b></span><br />
Non-Fiction<br />
<i>Galatians for You</i> by Tim Keller<br />
<i>King's Cross</i> by Tim Keller (audio)<br />
<i>Walking on Water: Reflections on Art and Faith</i> by Madeleine L'Engle<br />
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Fiction<br />
<i>The Golem and the Jinni</i> by Helene Wecker<br />
<i>The River of No Return</i> by Bee Ridgway<br />
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<br />Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-39902182036790373722013-07-31T12:50:00.000-04:002013-07-31T12:50:00.599-04:00Writing and Prayer<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwrSLIHVCoWaeqAKdCBcJY-sLXS8xHIE5W56OsB36_aRmKh9zbyijf7O6TCsknVw8_JJUGxHJTiUl2E2mb-YW5DNHhZl_w0-bT2NYDMfCIWIY-TzbSQxpnHjhFoX1-xMILwsddTW93ol1e/s1600/walking-on-water-book-cover.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwrSLIHVCoWaeqAKdCBcJY-sLXS8xHIE5W56OsB36_aRmKh9zbyijf7O6TCsknVw8_JJUGxHJTiUl2E2mb-YW5DNHhZl_w0-bT2NYDMfCIWIY-TzbSQxpnHjhFoX1-xMILwsddTW93ol1e/s1600/walking-on-water-book-cover.jpg" height="200" width="123" /></a>Thoughts on writing and prayer from Madeleine L'Engle's wonderful book, <i style="color: #0c343d;">Walking on Water: Reflections </i><i style="color: #0c343d;">on Faith and Art</i><span style="color: #0c343d;">.</span><br />
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So we must daily keep things wound; that is, we must pray when prayers seem dry as dust; we must write when we are physically tired, when our hearts are heavy, when our bodies are in pain.<br />
We may not always be able to make our "clock" run correctly, but at least we can keep it wound so that it will not forget.<br />
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To work on a book is for me very much the same thing as to pray. Both involve discipline. If the artist works only when he feels like it, he's not apt to build up much of a body of work. Inspiration far more often comes during the work than before it, because the largest part of the job of the artist is to listen to the work and to go where it tells him to go. Ultimately, when you are writing, you stop thinking and write what you hear.<br />
To pray is to listen also, to move through my own chattering to God to that place where I can be silent and listen to what God may have to say. But if I pray only when I feel like it, God may choose not to speak. The greatest moments of prayer come in the midst of fumbling and faltering prayer rather than at the odd moment when one decides to try to turn to God.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-92131478528692985362013-07-29T12:37:00.000-04:002013-07-29T12:37:00.502-04:00Devotional Thoughts<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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As part of my personal devotions, I recently finished reading/using <i>Galatians for You</i> by Timothy Keller. While there were so many sections that spoke to me, I just wanted to share a few particularly thought provoking portions.<br />
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<span style="color: #b45f06;">Solitary time with God is fundamental to the Christian life; but the Christian life is not a solitary one...We too must be deeply rooted in church communities. We have to avoid picking what we need here and there without ever becoming grafted into a cohesive community of other believers.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">God does not promise to bless Christians by removing suffering, but to bless Christians through suffering.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #351c75;"><i>Christians think that we are saved by the gospel, but then we grow by applying biblical principles to every are of life. But we are not just saved by the gospel, we grow by applying the gospel to every are of life.</i> <span style="font-size: x-small;">(Dick Kaufmann)</span> </span><br />
<span style="color: #351c75;">-The Spirit works as Christians don't rely on their own works, but rather consciously and continuously rest in Christ alone for their acceptability and completeness. </span><br />
<span style="color: #351c75;">-The Spirit works as you apply and use the gospel. </span><br />
<span style="color: #351c75;">-The Spirit does not work apart from the gospel. The gospel is the channel and form of the Spirit's power.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394;">Galatians 3:27 <i>for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. </i></span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">The idea of being clothed in Christ is a daring and comprehensive metaphor for a whole new life. It means to think of Christ constantly, to have His Spirit and His character infuse and permeate everything you think, say and do.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">-To say that Christ is our clothing is to say that our ultimate identity is found in Christ.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">-To say that Christ is our clothing is to call us to moment-by-moment dependence and existential awareness of Christ. We are spiritually to "practice His presence." To practice the presence of Christ entails that we continually think and act as if we were directly before His face.</span><br />
<span style="color: #0b5394;">-To say that Christ is our clothing is to say that in God's sight, we are loved because of Jesus' work and salvation. When God looks at us, He sees us as His sons because He sees His Son. The Lord Jesus has given us His righteousness, His perfection, to wear.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #990000;">We are to live today knowing we are, and always will be an absolute beauty in the eyes of God. </span>(Isn't this incredible?!)Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-34498912857061918502013-07-27T11:15:00.001-04:002013-07-27T11:15:50.971-04:00BdayJeremy's birthday fell on a Wednesday this year. I left for work at 7:20 in the morning and Jeremy didn't get home from his work until 9:30 in the evening, so needless to say, we didn't celebrate that day. Although, I did make him some jam-swirled donuts (gluten-free, vegan, and tasty!) as a little breakfast surprise.<br />
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Operation Birthday Celebration was scheduled for after I got off on Friday afternoon. We enjoyed pizza and a movie and then came home for dessert (homemade brownie pie with strawberry coconut milk ice cream) and presents. He was obviously celebrated in style...Christmas wrapping and abbreviated decorations! :) That's what happens when you want to make a birthday special, but you just started working full-time and there really isn't time to do it all.<br />
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Ultimately, though, I was able to celebrate my husband, which is really what is important anyway!<br />
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<br />Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-77805407250517623482013-07-14T16:18:00.002-04:002013-07-14T16:18:52.172-04:00SummerJust a few photos from the last month...<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Jeremy being goofy with his brothers.</td></tr>
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<br />Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-81524239481998425212013-07-02T18:00:00.000-04:002013-07-02T18:00:49.015-04:00BikingI live in a town with around a 15-mile square radius. And in this town, the parks and rec department maintains 18 miles of continuous, wide, paved biking/walking trails.<br />
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We live in a 3rd floor apartment, so it's no small feat to haul our bikes down, but I'm finding it is worth it. The other day, I lugged my bike down the stairs and set off. It was a beautiful day with lots of sun and a little extra wind. I cycled along appreciating the wildflower weeds growing around, the bridges over little streams of water, the parks dotting the trail. I stopped to read for awhile. I was hot and tired by the time I returned home, but I'd easily put in about 9 miles.<br />
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I've owned my ten-speed for over half of my life. It was a huge surprise for my 13th birthday (a time in my family's life when money was a bit tight). We went camping for my birthday that year and not long before we were supposed to be leaving, I was blindfolded and led outside to my awaiting bike. I was absolutely shocked and so thrilled!<br />
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All these years later, she is still a quality bike, but she's a little worse for the wear. The painted lettering has flaked off; the handlebars need new grip tape; one of the gear shifting wires is missing and therefore it isn't actually a ten-speed bike right now; the tires are starting to crack; the brakes are a little worn down. Much of this can be repaired and replaced and really I should (some just for safely reasons!). Some days I want a new bike, but there is something so sweet about looking at my navy blue bike and being reminded of that time in my life and the generous gift my parents so lovingly gave me.<br />
<br />Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-49887240840785614112013-06-18T16:03:00.000-04:002013-06-18T16:03:05.753-04:00Stay-cationSo, a week ago we enjoyed our first vacation since moving out west. In truth it was a "stay-cation." (I really don't like that word, but it is the perfect description for the vacation we enjoyed.) We're still new enough to the area that we had lots of places to explore. I didn't get pictures of everything we did, but here are a few from our "stay-cation" adventures...we thoroughly enjoyed spending time together and exploring our new home.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Garden of the Gods</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Jeremy enjoying the "penny" arcade.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">A cute, though admittedly touristy town.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Awesome museum that we only saw about half off.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The last day of our vacation!</td></tr>
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<br />Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-24994070000246912762013-06-01T14:03:00.002-04:002013-06-01T14:03:56.240-04:00Help Thanks Wow<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzncOWRZ5SxnaVRytLnkZ4_2sz8QWHnTswIc7_je2MPAjKqgp6zFsv3pwEOsm6OVTI9VpgfdN3_8HgxBnSsNKrBdK8fgCHcK625DwS6sr9uz5bZKSO9VfIq4TXWfp9WnNka5UCtHZsYkoy/s1600/help+thanks+wow.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzncOWRZ5SxnaVRytLnkZ4_2sz8QWHnTswIc7_je2MPAjKqgp6zFsv3pwEOsm6OVTI9VpgfdN3_8HgxBnSsNKrBdK8fgCHcK625DwS6sr9uz5bZKSO9VfIq4TXWfp9WnNka5UCtHZsYkoy/s1600/help+thanks+wow.jpg" height="200" width="141" /></a>When I was at the library the other day I picked up the newish book by Anne Lamott <i>Help Thanks Wow: The Three Essential Prayers</i>. I first read Lamott for a college class. And since that time I've read a handful of her non-fiction books (my favorites being <i>Operating Instructions</i> and <i>Bird by Bird</i>).<br />
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She's an author that I do not agree with theologically in many respects, but at the same time, she always makes me think and sometimes she makes me laugh (both admirable qualities, in my opinion). She doesn't presume to know everything or to be a perfect person that's got it all together, in fact she's pretty much the opposite.<br />
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Anyway, back to <i>Help Thanks Wow. </i>In the Thanks section I was struck by these thoughts:<br />
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<i><span style="color: #741b47;"><b>You breathe in gratitude, and you breathe it out too. Once you learn how to do that, then you can bear someone who is unbearable.</b></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="color: #b45f06;"><b>Gratitude begins in our hearts and then dove-tails into behavior. It almost always makes you willing to be of service, which is where the joy resides.</b></span></i><br />
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At church my pastor has been preaching on the Christian life with an emphasis on the Fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5: 22-23). Lamott's thoughts on gratitude and joy and bearing other people fit in well with the many things I've been considering from the sermons of the last few weeks.<br />
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As an aside, have you ever pondered the fact that the Fruit of the Spirit is divided into three sets? Love, joy, peace are involved with our relationship with God (upward-focused). Patience, kindness, goodness are involved with our relationship with others (outward-focused). And faithfulness, gentleness, self-control are involved with our relationship with ourselves (inward-focused).<br />
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I agree with Lamott that <i>Help</i> and <i>Thanks</i> and <i>Wow</i> are integral prayers in the life of a Christian. Personally, I employ these prayers quite often. And sometimes when I can't find the words, I just breathe out those prayers, knowing that God can read between the lines.<br />
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C. S. Lewis once wrote: <i><span style="color: #38761d;"><b>I pray because I can't help myself. I pray because I'm helpless. I pray because the need flows out of me all the time, waking and sleeping. It doesn't change God. It changes me.</b></span> </i>I think that pretty much sums it up!Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-8550535697234110502013-05-18T23:20:00.001-04:002013-05-18T23:20:23.455-04:002013 Reading: January - April Edition<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6dF6ZmjNUsRrbO7UqQGLZ503TxnS4_IMQhJzTKwFP-kLl9a_iCZVzhdseccbPhuK74jU4Ei_twgCfJYkXTJhz822Y01aVuGRvy4Us-rP1ZkO68V7QPYXIn0_8x5Y6ZCgvEVdA78Pqiahr/s1600/between+shades+of+grey.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6dF6ZmjNUsRrbO7UqQGLZ503TxnS4_IMQhJzTKwFP-kLl9a_iCZVzhdseccbPhuK74jU4Ei_twgCfJYkXTJhz822Y01aVuGRvy4Us-rP1ZkO68V7QPYXIn0_8x5Y6ZCgvEVdA78Pqiahr/s1600/between+shades+of+grey.jpg" height="200" width="138" /></a>At the end of each month I imagine I'm going to sit down and give you an update on what I've read, including some brief reviews of my favorite reads. Clearly my good intentions have not paid off. So, instead I'm giving you a quarterly round-up. 2013 is not proving to be a particularly lucrative year in the reading department (this may be in part because I've spent so much time by myself at home that reading for hours on end just hasn't enticed me in the way it does when I'm busy and around people most of the time). Regardless, I've read some great books. This year's reading has been very YA focused, mostly because of great recommendations from my friends <a href="http://girlevolving.com/">Kim</a> and Rebecca.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho2GdBzix4GAFVQFFWlaWhIAH0ZLsSg_sGdLHa9TSTEAIZMTfWfkPex_cSa9vyej7eSS7tWf6EZQHBaH8knNMnvO3s-ngXk1onk8K7ZghjctkUudYF6gXTxAesFXUYtDGdqxu6zfWpgQdC/s1600/brain+on+fire.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho2GdBzix4GAFVQFFWlaWhIAH0ZLsSg_sGdLHa9TSTEAIZMTfWfkPex_cSa9vyej7eSS7tWf6EZQHBaH8knNMnvO3s-ngXk1onk8K7ZghjctkUudYF6gXTxAesFXUYtDGdqxu6zfWpgQdC/s1600/brain+on+fire.jpg" height="200" width="131" /></a>As I expected, I truly enjoyed the Emily series by L.M. Montgomery. About 15 years past due, this was my first foray into these books. They are rather delightful and I'd definitely recommend.<br />
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It's been too many weeks since I've read most of these to do any sort of justice with reviews; however, I still want to give you visual of some of the great books I discovered this year. I particularly enjoyed every book I read in February. :) I hope you find something in my list that intrigues you and perhaps you decide to pick up yourself. As always, I welcome book recommendations. In place of the reviews I hoped to write (perhaps I will in coming months), I'm going to add a few book cover pictures of some of my favorite reads this year. Hope you enjoy.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>January</b></span><br />
Non-fiction:<br />
<i>The Yoga Body Diet</i> by Kristen Schultz Dollard<br />
<i>The Misadventures of a Garden State Yogi</i> by Brian Leaf<br />
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Fiction:<br />
<i>A Death in the Small Hours</i> by Charles Finch<br />
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YA:<br />
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<i>Outpost</i> by Ann Aguirre<br />
<i>Divergent</i> by Veronica Roth<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>February</b></span><br />
Non-fiction:<br />
<i>Brain on Fire: My Month of Madness</i> by Susannah Calahan<br />
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<i>The Secret Keeper</i> by Kate Morton<br />
<i>The Lost Art of Mixing</i> by Erica Bauermeister<br />
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YA:<br />
<i>Insurgent </i>by Veronica Roth<br />
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<i>Code Name Verity</i> by Elizabeth Wein<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>March</b></span><br />
Non-fiction:<br />
<i>Saturday Night Widows</i> by Becky Aikman<br />
<i>Main Street Vegan</i> by Victoria Moran<br />
<i>Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life</i> by Amy Krouse Rosenthal<br />
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<i>21-Day Kickstart Weight Loss</i> by Dr. Neal Barnard<br />
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Fiction:<br />
<i>Sharp Objects</i> by Gillian Flynn<br />
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YA:<br />
<i>Emily of New Moon</i> by L.M. Montgomery<br />
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YA:<br />
<i>Emily Climbs </i>by L.M. Montgomery<br />
<i>Emily's Quest</i> by L.M. Montgomery<br />
<i>The Graveyard Book</i> by Neil Gaiman<br />
<i>This Dark Endeavor: the Apprenticeship of Victor Frankenstein</i> by Kenneth Oppel<br />
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<i><b>Happy reading, my friends!!</b></i>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-75380931338382278732013-05-15T13:16:00.000-04:002013-05-15T13:16:31.920-04:00On Being a Librarian's WifeI never really imagined I'd be brainstorming crafts for kids and making thank-you yoda cookies, but apparently such is the life of a librarian's wife...<br />
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<i>Deeper</i> by JJ Heller<br />
<i>The Shepherd's Dog</i> by Iron and Wine<br />
<i>Hopes and Fears</i> by Keane<br />
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<i>Need You Now</i> by Plumb<br />
<i>Painted Red</i> by JJ Heller<br />
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What tunes are you loving right now? I'm always on the look out for new music.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-88197257068602602532013-04-15T00:04:00.000-04:002013-04-15T00:04:26.779-04:00QuiltingIn the quietness that has defined my life since our move out west, I've found inspiration and enjoyment in hours of creativity through quilting. In the last 3 1/2 months I've made three quilts.<br />
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I don't really make the traditional, fancy-designed quilt squares, at least not yet. Instead, my quilts are typically just small squares I piece together in some sort of design. My Grandma J. quilts. The big quilt I just finished up was from her. She made all but one of the fancy quilt squares. She gave the completed quilt blocks to me to put together and finish up, if I wanted. This project took a massive amount of time. I completed the quilt top in December but I let it sit for awhile as I contemplated how in the world I was going to finish up something so big--slightly oversized queen quilt for our bed. In the end I decided to tie the quilt as it was too large to machine quilt. While I prefer the look of a machine quilted or hand quilted finish (I actually don't know how to hand quilt, yet), I am overall pleased with how the quilt turned out. It took me two weeks of fairly steady sewing while Jeremy was at work to finally finish this. (Pardon the slight mess of books and pillows.)<br />
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In January I made a small, square quilt for my new niece, Emmarie. I pieced the top from scraps in my sewing cupboard--purples and greens. My mom helped me finish this one up. I don't get to sew with company much, so that was quite enjoyable.<br />
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In February I made another small quilt for my new nephew, Everett. Again I pieced the top from scraps in my sewing cupboard--browns and blues; however, the top on this one was pieced entirely from discarded button-up shirts (fun frugality). I also experimented with adding the shapes and letters (Everett's initials), which was fun.<br />
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I've told my sister that I think just about anyone could do the type of quilting I do. Just cut squares and sew them together. It's not too difficult, though it does take some basic mathematical precision, focus, and a splash of creativity. Best of all, it's fun and the finished product is something you can use. I'm already imagining my next quilt, whenever and whatever it may be.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-42606983171653312522013-01-15T19:17:00.001-05:002013-01-15T19:17:17.677-05:00What I've Been Reading: 2012 EditionLast year I only posted my reading through April. I thought I'd just quickly chronicle here my reading for the remainder of 2012. I didn't set myself any reading goals for the year--instead just reading at whim. Though there were a few themes that emerged: lots of YA reading (thanks to recommendations from my friend Rebecca), several books about polygamy, and some interesting non-fiction reading. The year's total only reached 70 books, much fewer than last 2011s total of over 100, but it is what it is. I read and that's what is important.<br />
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Enjoy!<br />
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May<br />
Molly Fox's Birthday by Dierdre Martin<br />
Island of the Aunts by Eva Ibbotson<br />
Quiet: the Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain<br />
Anne of Ingleside by L.M. Montgomery<br />
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June<br />
The Haunting of Granite Falls by Eva Ibbotson<br />
The Heirloom Life Gardener by Jere and Emilee Gettle<br />
Below Stairs by Margaret Powell<br />
A Countess Below Stairs by Eva Ibbotson<br />
The Morning Gift by Eva Ibbotson<br />
The Pig Did It by Joseph Caldwell<br />
The Iron King by Julie Kagawa<br />
The Reluctant Heiress by Eva Ibbotson<br />
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July<br />
Love Times Three by Joe, Alina, Vicki, & Valerie Darger<br />
The Iron Daughter by Julie Kagawa<br />
Becoming Sister Wives by Kody Brown & wives<br />
Steal Like an Artist by Austin Kleon<br />
Gold by Chris Cleave<br />
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August<br />
Yes, Chef by Marcus Samuelsson<br />
7: an Experimental Mutiny Against Excess by Jen Hatmaker<br />
French Kids Eat Everything by Karen LeBillon<br />
The Secret History by Donna Tartt<br />
Choosing Gratitude by Nancy Leigh Demoss<br />
Happier at Home by Gretchen Rubin<br />
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September<br />
Does This Church Make Me Look Fat? by Rhoda Janzen<br />
The Midwife of Hope River by Patricia Harman<br />
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October<br />
Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone by J.K.Rowling<br />
The Woman Who Died A Lot by Jasper Fforde<br />
The Way to Write for Children by Joan Aiken<br />
The Midwife by Jennifer Worth<br />
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November<br />
The Last Dragonslayer by Jasper Fforde<br />
Natural Relief for Anxiety by Edmund Bourne<br />
The Casual Vacancy by J.K. Rowling<br />
Housekeeping Vs. the Dirt by Nick Hornby<br />
A Song for Summer by Eva Ibbotson<br />
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December<br />
Louisa and the Missing Heiress by Anna Maclean<br />
Adrenal Fatigue by James Wilson<br />
Calm My Anxious Heart by Linda DillowStephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-69301221082396624392013-01-03T17:35:00.000-05:002013-01-03T17:35:20.001-05:00The Year of the OliveI mentioned in my previous post that I don't have particular expectations for 2013. However, I do have a goal for the year and I've written about it on my <a href="http://thecooksnextdoor.com/2013/01/03/the-year-of-the-olive/">cooking blog</a>. Go on over and take a look!Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-26353323706437578292012-12-31T15:32:00.000-05:002012-12-31T15:32:16.126-05:002012--Year in ReviewIf there is anyone still out there that thinks about reading my blog, then you are well aware that 2012 was far from a stellar blogging year--less than 15 posts is pretty miserable, actually.<br />
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2012 was, in fact, one of the hardest years I've experienced yet.<br />
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It went something like this..<br />
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<b>January</b> my beloved Grandma C. passed away quite unexpectedly (even though she was nearly 92, it was still unexpected).<br />
<b>March</b> I interviewed for a new full-time position at my workplace.<br />
<b>April</b> I started my new job in the children's department at the library and loved it--my favorite job to date, I loved just about everything about it, including the explosion of brain creativity I experienced as I planned crafts and programs.<br />
<b>May</b> my beloved Grandpa C. passed away, after 4 very long months of missing Grandma (just shy of his 92nd birthday as well).<br />
<b>June</b> Jeremy interviewed for a new job in the city we'd hoped to return to--the place we both still consider home, near most of our family--but he wasn't selected.<br />
<b>July</b> we took a camping vacation up into Traverse City, MI. Three days before our departure date, Jeremy got a call requesting a phone interview the following week--smack dab in the middle of our anticipated, restful vacation. Phone interview = successful. Restful vacation = unsuccessful.<br />
Somewhere along in here my Grandma J. fell and fractured her neck.<br />
<b>August</b> Jeremy flew out for an in-person interview with the same library system. I attended my last yoga class with my favorite instructor of 2 years--though at the time I didn't know it was my last class.<br />
<b>September</b> I was involved in a hit and run accident with a semi--thankfully I was unharmed and my car, while scraped and dented, was fully functional after a new set of tires. And they eventually tracked down the driver, who'd gone to Canada, and his insurance covered everything<br />
Jeremy was offered a job. We put in our 2-weeks notice with our current jobs.<br />
We flew out to find an apartment over our months-ago-planned and anticipated restful 4th anniversary vacation. Apartment hunting = successful. Restful anniversary vacation = unsuccessful.<br />
Another car accident, this one minor and involving Jeremy.<br />
Within 3 weeks we'd packed up and were moving a 1000 miles across country.<br />
<b>October-December</b> has been filled with settling in to a whole new state, new job, new apartment, church-hunting, and all that moving entails. I celebrated a birthday. We celebrated Thanksgiving and Christmas here. We still haven't found a church, or really any social outlets. Additionally, somewhere along the way my dad was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease.<br />
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In the midst of this monumental year, I've read numerous books (which perhaps I'll be inspired to finish cataloging here as I left off about 1/3 of the way through the year), though the count is way down from <a href="http://stephaniecj.blogspot.com/2012/01/2011-reading-wrap-up_3662.html">last year</a>. I've cooked numerous meals, though only a handful of dishes were featured on the <a href="http://thecooksnextdoor.com/">cooking blog</a> I share with my sister--that's fizzled, momentarily at least, as well. And I found out there would be an addition of a new niece and a new nephew in 2013.<br />
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2012 has sort of kicked my butt in many ways. However, I've seen God at work too and I know that's because I've needed to throw myself at His feet asking for guidance so very many times. He has been close. Earlier in the year I read <i>Choosing Gratitude </i>by Nancy Leigh DeMoss and right now I'm just about to finish up <i>Calm My Anxious Heart</i> by Linda Dillow. Both books have been convicting and encouraging reads to focus my heart and mind on Christ Jesus because He is my all in all.<br />
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As 2011 turned into 2012 I remember thinking/hoping that 2012 would be a better year. It didn't turn out remotely how I expected. So, I'm taking away any pre-conceived expectations for 2013 because I have no idea what this year will bring. What I do know is that God will be here as my source of peace and strength and hope.<br />
<br />Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-62576723395863860032012-09-10T16:12:00.000-04:002012-09-10T16:12:35.635-04:00The Meaning of MarriageMarriage has been on my mind recently in part because Thursday is my fourth anniversary! And while I've grown in my understanding of marriage and in my role as a wife over these four years, there is still so very much I do not know. Each year has its own personality bringing joys and challenges (and there are phases where one seems to outweigh the other!). I have never been stretched as much or learned so much about myself. Marriage is a rather mysterious union. Don't get me wrong, it is wonderful, I love my husband more today than I did at our wedding! But marriage is also incredibly hard work as it requires the dedication, love, and harmony of two sinful people. It is my hope that I always desire to continue to grow and learn about marriage and being a godly wife. To that end, each year I try to read at last one book about Christian marriage, right now I am reading <em>The Meaning of Marriage </em>by Tim Keller. Only three chapters in, I've already found much food for thought.<br />
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While reading last night about the need for selflessness, Keller wrote this: <span style="color: #274e13;"><em>The Christian principle that needs to be at work is Spirit-generated selflessness—not thinking less of yourself or more of yourself but thinking of yourself less.</em></span><br />
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Further on, he discussed the life-changing possibilities of being completely immersed in the knowledge and work of Jesus. And while this is not marriage specific, I found the following paragraphs insightful. They also created in me a desire to know Jesus more deeply!<br />
<em>What, then, would the effect be if we were to dive even more deeply into Jesus’s teaching and life and work? What if we were to be so immersed in his promises and summonses, his counsels and encouragements, that they dominated our inner life, capturing our imagination, and simply bubbled out spontaneously when we faced some challenge? How would we live if we instinctively, almost unconsciously, knew Jesus’s mind and heart regarding things that confronted us? When you received criticism, you would never be crushed, because Jesus’s love and acceptance of you is so deeply “in there.” When you gave criticism, you would be gentle and patient, because your whole inner world would be saturated by a sense of Jesus’s loving patience and gentleness with you.</em><br />
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<em>This does not mean that ever time you are criticized you are consciously, deliberately thinking, “What does Jesus have to say about this?” You won’t have to think it out like that, because if Jesus and his Word are so deeply in there, they will just fortify you, lifting you up. They will be part of you. You look at yourself through his eyes; you look at the world through his eyes. It becomes the cast of your whole mind. </em><br />
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<em>This does not happen overnight, of course. It takes years of reflection. It requires disciplined prayer, Bible study and reading, innumerable conversations with friends, and dynamic congregational worship. But unlike learning other thinkers or authors, Jesus’s Spirit can come and live within you and spiritually illuminate your heart, so that his gospel becomes glorious in your sight. Then the gospel “dwells in you hearts richly” (Colossians 3:16), and we find the power to serve, to give and take criticism well, to not expect our spouse or our marriage to meet all our needs and heal all our hurts.</em><br />
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I hope perhaps you too might find these thoughts encouraging!<br />
Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-79474036155410253012012-08-05T22:04:00.000-04:002012-08-05T22:09:01.242-04:007<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I just finished reading <i>7 An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess</i> by Jen Hatmaker. My sister recommended the book a few months back and courtesy of the library, I finally got around to it this weekend. The book follows Hatmaker's 7 month social experiment of ridding her life of excess. She chose 7 categories to target--food, clothes, possessions, media, waste, spending, stress--and created specific ground rules for each 30-day segment. It's a thought provoking read and I think holds an important message in our society of excess. I didn't come away from the book wanting to engage in the same social experiment that Hatmaker involved herself in and I didn't come away riddled with guilt; however, I did come away pondering how I can be a better steward of this world and this body that God has created.<br />
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One particular paragraph stood out to me. It really isn't the crux of the book, but it was an important reminder and encouragement for me right now. I thought I'd share it as it might be a particular encouragement to you as well.<br />
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<i style="color: #0c343d;">Our stories affect one another whether we know it or not. Sometimes obedience isn't for us at all, but for another. We don't know how God holds the kingdom in balance or why He moves a chess piece at a crucial time; we might never see the results of His sovereignty. But we can trust Him when He says press on, cling to hope, stay the course. He is always at work, even if the entire thread is hidden. I might just be one shade of one color of one strand, but I'm a part of an elaborate tapestry that goes beyond my perception.</i>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-20161586530402734252012-07-11T14:10:00.001-04:002012-07-11T14:10:33.439-04:00Summer PleasuresA few things I've taken particular enjoyment in of late...<br />
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I've been reveling in big bowls of summer fruit. Particularly the cherries, peaches, and black raspberries from my local CSA share. As well as the blueberries I picked from a nearby organic blueberry farm. I think I'll be heading out there at least once more before the close of the season. <br />
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<strong>Iced Coffee</strong><br />
I'm a fan of iced coffee. I cold brew it myself so I can have it at whim (decaf, in case you're wondering). But, I discovered something good/bad. :) Panera sells iced coffee ($1.81 for a medium and if you're staying there, it's free refills) and beside the dispenser is cream and vanilla or hazelnut syrup if you want to jazz up your coffee for "free." I'll continue to make my own iced coffee, but I'll be treating myself to fancy iced coffee every once in awhile.<br />
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<strong>Music</strong><br />
Several years ago, during my junior year of college, I fell in love with the musical group Keane. I loved their piano-driven rock and their first album <em>Hopes and Fears</em> is still one of my favorite CDs. Their second album <em>Under the Iron Sea</em> was also fabulous. Then they released a couple not my favorite albums. So, with hesitant optimism, I looked forward to the release of their newest album<em>, Strangeland</em>. While nothing will ever quite be <em>Hopes and Fears</em>, I am so pleased that <em>Strangeland</em> is a return to the group's roots. I've been listening to the CD for several days now on my commute to work and I have yet to tire of it. If you've not tried out the music of Keane yet, check your local library and give them a listen.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-89560298351714513162012-05-21T08:20:00.001-04:002012-05-21T08:20:53.571-04:00Saying GoodbyeI don't consider myself much of a poet. But, in my grieving last week at the loss of Grandpa, just 4 months after the loss of Grandma, I found myself penning a poem. This is part of my healing. Part of my learning to say, "Goodbye."<br />
<br />
This is my small tribute to Grandpa and Grandma.<br />
<br />
<br />
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Saying Goodbye</span></b></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">As I
pass your still form,<br />
I look into your face<br />
and whisper a <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">goodbye</i>.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">The word—so
meager—sticks<br />
in the hollowness of my stomach<br />
and in the lump in my throat.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Tears
run rivers of paltry<br />
<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">good-byes</i><br />
down my cheeks,<br />
my neck.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">No word can
encompass<br />
the thirty years of love-filled<br />
<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">hellos</i><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />
and<br />
<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">how are yous?</i></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<br /></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Later, I
stroll through what remains<br />
—stuff—<br />
trailing my fingers over hills of<br />
dishes, wallets, tools, shoes. <br />
Ninety years of possessions collected,<br />
chaotic and out-of-place.<br />
So unlike how you lived, unlike even<br />
how you died.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Memories,
thick as smoke, rise <br />
from the touch of a kitchen cabinet door, <br />
from the scroll of penmanship across<br />
recipe cards and a well-thumbed copy of <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Hoyle’s</i>,<br />
from a glance at the ever-vigilant Grandfather clock,<br />
from a seat at the table around which so many meals<br />
began with <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Father, we pause just now…</i></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">You are
here,<br />
sort of.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">I am
told to find a token,<br />
a memory.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">I don’t
want a <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">thing</i>.<br />
I want you.<br />
Here.<br />
Still.<br />
If I take of what is left, <br />
I acknowledge you are not.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Yet, I
take to help say <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">goodbye</i>.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"></span></span></i><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">I
lift a sewing machine—a mere toy—<br />
crafted by your own hands <br />
and caress the smooth two-toned wood<br />
seamlessly joined as one. <br />
In this small piece I see <br />
the couple you were and the family you built.<br />
With each twist of the knob, <br />
I watch the threaded needle bob <br />
up, down, <br />
up, down, <br />
sewing a rhythmic memory of your life—<br />
dedication, precision, family, laughter, faith, hope, love.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">And as I
tuck the sewing machine beneath my arm,<br />
I remember our eternity and how<br />
saying <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">goodbye</i> to you today<br />
is an invitation to <br />
say <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">hello</i> again<br />
some other day<br />
in glory.</span></div>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-12818552459798859652012-05-13T17:38:00.000-04:002012-05-13T17:38:05.485-04:00What I've Been Reading: March/April EditionI know we're nearly halfway through May already, but I thought I'd bring you my March/April reading list. January came and went and for the first time in several years I didn't set myself any particular reading goals for the year. Instead, I've read whatever has caught my fancy. For this year, it's been a good decision, though I hope to create goals for myself again. But for now, I'm enjoying reading <a href="http://www.stephaniecj.blogspot.com/2011/09/august-reading.html">at whim</a>.<br />
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I am never at a loss for books. In fact, between work and home I'm constantly surrounded by them. I have a never decreasing stack of books I'm either perusing for information (usually health and exercise related or cookbooks--I have an addiction to checking out cookbooks from the library!) or reading just for the sheer pleasure.<br />
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For whatever reason, my reading has been dominated by nonfiction in the last few months. I'd like to highlight three particular books. <i>Real Food</i> by Nina Planck is a thought-provoking book asking the reader to consider their food and eating habits. I tend toward being a thinker about food anyway, particularly because of Jeremy's eating needs. But Planck's book caused me to make a few more changes, the biggest being the kind of milk I buy. I now buy my milk from the farmer. Just about the time I read the book, I local farmer began selling his cream-top, grass-fed milk at the farmer's market. It is of course twice as expensive as conventional milk, but it's a price I'm willing to pay. Plus, the milk is delicious!<br />
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I was first introduced to the writings of Lauren Winner while in college. She's written several books about her faith and conversion from Orthodox Judaism to Christianity, which I've enjoyed and appreciated. So, I was quite interested in reading her newest book, <i>Still: Notes on a Mid-Faith Crisis. </i>This is a different sort of spiritual memoir because Winner is examining and questioning her faith after the death of her mother and the demise of her marriage. While I haven't walked through either of those tragedies, I still found much food for thought. After finishing the book, I decided to re-read Winner's book <i>Mudhouse Sabbath</i>. It was just as good the second time around.<br />
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Lastly, while I don't have any children, I thoroughly enjoyed reading Pamela Druckerman's book, <i>Bringing Up</i><i> <span class="st"><em></em></span></i><span class="st"><em></em></span><span class="st"><em>B</em></span><span class="st"><em></em></span><span class="st"><em>ébé</em></span>. Druckerman is an American raising children in Paris. This book is her exploration of the difference between American and French parenting. It's both interesting and easy to read.<br />
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<u><b>Nonfiction</b></u><br />
<i>Real Food</i> by Nina Planck<br />
<i>Girl Hunter</i> by Georgia Pelligrini<br />
<i>Scenes From an Impending Marriage</i> by Adrian Tomine (graphic novel)<br />
<i>Some Assembly Required </i>by Anne Lamott<br />
<i>The Real Elizabeth</i> by Andrew Marr<br />
<i>Still: Notes on a Mid-Faith Crisis</i> by Lauren Winner<br />
<i>Bringing Up</i><i> <span class="st"><em></em></span></i><span class="st"><em></em></span><span class="st"><em>B</em></span><span class="st"><em></em></span><span class="st"><em>ébé</em></span> by Pamela Druckerman<br />
<i>Praying in Color</i> by Sybil MacBeth<br />
<i>Mudhouse Sabbath</i> by Lauren Winner<br />
<i>Wild: from Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail</i> by Cheryl Strayed<br />
<i>Thirst</i> (poems) by Mary Oliver<br />
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<u><b>Fiction</b></u><br />
<i>Anna and the French Kiss</i> by Stephanie Perkins (YA)<br />
<i>Mr. Popper's Penguins</i> by Richard and Florence Atwater (children's)<br />
<i>A Surrey State of Affairs</i> by Ceri Radford<br />
<i>Wide Sargasso Sea</i> by Jean RhysStephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-90987711436089823112012-05-08T18:26:00.000-04:002012-05-08T18:26:21.402-04:00My PonytailToday I stopped by the post office and spent $2.12 mailing my ponytail. Late last week I parted with 9 inches of hair. Thanks to my mom, I'm sporting a new short, layered, summery cut and the rest of my hair is on its way to Pantene Beautiful Lengths hair donation program. <br />
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This is the fourth time I've donated my hair in the past 12 years. But this is the first time donating to Pantene. Previously I've sent the extra locks to Locks of Love. Locks of Love makes wigs for kids with hair loss. Pantene makes wigs for woman who have lost hair due to cancer. I decided since I'm 30 now, maybe it would be nice to donate to a program for women. :)<br />
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Every time I cut my hair off for donation I figure it's the last time. And this time it may well be, but I'm thankful I've had the opportunity to share my hair with those in need.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-8518462102886669062012-03-27T07:12:00.002-04:002012-03-27T07:17:38.125-04:00More Morning Devotion ThoughtsRomans 8:38-39 "For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord."<br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 0, 51);"><br />When Paul says nothing can separate us from God's love, he means that even we cannot snatch ourselves from His hand. If we have true faith, we will maintain that faith until the end. Times of doubt may arise, and it is even possible to fall into grievous sin. Yet, if we belong to Christ today, we will belong to Him forever. This should encourage us to draw near to the Lord even when we feel far from Him. If we come humbly, He will not reject us.</span><br /><span style="font-size:78%;">(from Tabletalk, March 2012)</span>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-3185426737521216232012-03-21T09:08:00.002-04:002012-03-21T09:12:52.448-04:00Words I'm PonderingI read this during my morning devotions and it's giving me food for thought:<br /><br /><em><span style="color:#336666;">The control God exercises over everything that ever happens demonstrates that there is some significance to all that we do. In turn, this means that we should give thought to our actions and how we spend our time. The Lord is gracious, so we should not be paranoid and legalistic about making sure every moment is filled with what we might regard as self-evident "kingdom work." But we should take care not to waste the time God has given us.</span></em>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-62512197401362850072012-03-10T17:01:00.002-05:002012-03-10T17:12:23.770-05:00What I've Been Reading<span style="font-weight: bold;">January</span><br /><br />Fiction<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">A Red Herring Without Mustard</span> by Alan Bradley<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">The Sea Monsters</span> (Percy Jackson series #2) by Rick Riordan<span style="font-style: italic;"></span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">The Titan's Curse</span> (Percy Jackson #3) by Rick Riordan<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">*Anne's House of Dreams</span> (audio) by L.M. Montgomery<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">A Burial at Sea</span> by Charles Finch<br /><br />Non-Fiction<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Kitchen Privileges</span> by Mary Higgins Clark<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Shakespeare Wrote for Money</span> (essays) by Nick Hornby<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">**One Thousand Gifts</span> by Ann Voskamp<br /><span style="font-style: italic;"></span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">February</span><br /><br />Fiction<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">*The House at Tyneford</span> by Natasha Solomon<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">*The Snow Child</span> by Eowyn Ivey<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">*The Flight of Gemma Hardy</span> by Margot Livesey<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">The Battle of the Labyrinth</span> (Percy Jackson #4) by Rick Riordan<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">The Daughter of Smoke and Bone</span> by Laini Taylor<br /><br />Non-Fiction<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">**Grace for the Good Girl</span> by Emily P. Freeman<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Secrets and Wives: the Hidden World of Mormon Polygamy</span> by Sanjiv Bhattacharya<br /><span style="font-style: italic;">The Orchard</span> by Theresa Weir<br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;">*= These books come with particular recommendation because of their stories.<br />**= These books were thoughtfully written, as well as convicting and encouraging to my Christian walk.</span>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816636661705568243.post-14582277397127657722012-03-08T18:29:00.005-05:002012-03-08T22:46:22.048-05:00On Being an IntrovertIt's been awhile, I know. I haven't felt like there was much to say. But, here I am for the moment.<br /><br />In January I read a beautiful book called <em>One Thousand Gifts</em> by Ann Voskamp. It is a book celebrating the everyday graces of God, a poetically written reminder that there is so much in this world around us to be thankful for. It was a perfect book to read at the beginning of a new year. I am striving to mindfully open my eyes and acknowledge and thank God. This is not easy. Everyday I have to remind myself again and again to search out those God graces.<br /><br />I've been reading Ann Voskamp's <a href="http://www.aholyexperience.com/">blog</a> ever since reading her book. Some posts I just skim through, but today's post hit home for me--a guest post about the introvert's role in the church. <a href="http://www.aholyexperience.com/2012/03/where-do-introverts-fit-in-the-church/">Read it here</a>.<br /><br />I am an introvert. This is an undisputed fact--one I try to overcome and work with everyday. It is a personality trait that I struggle with. It leads me to compare myself to just about any out-going girl or woman. I feel <em>less</em> than, like I'm missing a piece of what it is to live authentically and fully. I feel like there is something wrong with me that I can't easily engage in small talk, that I shrink into myself in crowds, at parties, and in new places. This trait has followed me around for 30 years. It's dogged my steps in this "new" city that Jeremy and I try to call home. After 3 1/2 years, I still don't feel connected and I know some of it is because of my introverted shy self.<br /><br />I do know in my head that being an introvert isn't the wrong personality type. I realize that introverts and extroverts both make this world go round. But in our culture and society, being an introvert is not embraced. There is a new book out called <em>Quiet: the Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking</em>. I want to read it.<br /><br />For quite awhile now I haven't really felt like I fit in much. And I particularly don't see how I fit into church. I am lonely there. I meet Jesus there, but there aren't bonds of friendships. The social stuff seems to be all about the couples with children and those pursuing graduate degrees. And there I am. There we are. Feeling more like a square peg in a round hole. I don't know what the answer is exactly because I can't just up and change my personality. But I am so glad I stopped by Ann's blog today and read the post. They were words this introvert needed to hear.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01797443528619232804noreply@blogger.com2